Happy New Year!

2 01 2009

Happy New Year, Everybody! I hope you and yours have a safe, wonderful, happy, and prosperous new year. Best wishes to you all and thanks for reading this blog!

Regards,

Stephen Arbour





Light Up The Night in Philly

21 12 2008

Sara and I went to the Light Up The Night event organized by Marriage Equality and Join The Impact at Love Park in Philadelphia today. While the turnout was small due t0 the holiday season and freezing cold weather, the mood was good for the 35 or so demonstrators. A reporter from WHYY was capturing opinions, singing, and interviewing people including us. He seemed surprised that Sara and I were straight, still he reminded me that we’ve been fighting for equal rights for the GLBT community for years. For me, it’s been 18 years, and I have to admit that while things have improved, there’s a long way to go.





A Memory of David Halberstam

7 12 2008

Hope you read Frank Rich piece in the NY Times today. Halberstam spoke at my undergraduate graduation from Drew University in 1994, shortly after celebrating the 20th-anniversary of the publishing of his “The Best and the Brightest”. (Gary Trudeau satirized him in Doonesbury as “a writer of mighty tomes”.) I wonder what he’d have thought about President-Elect Obama’s appointments. But given his passing last year and my memory of his perspective, I think he’d mostly approve. -SA





Philadelphia Prop 8 Protest a Huge Success

15 11 2008

Sara and I decided to join the Prop 8 Protest Rally at Philadelphia’s City Hall today. What a blast! There’s nothing like stopping traffic with a few thousand like-minded activists chanting, hollering, and generally feeling the love. When we first showed up around 1 PM, the crowd was only a few hundred; however, when we left the radio said that the protest was getting bigger by the hour. One of the organizers said that over 5,000 people were there! [Edited: I had thought Brandi said 12,600 people were there, but what she actually said was that 12,600 people had seen the Facebook page. See her comment below for details]. Whatever the count, it felt great to support our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters in their fight for equality.

Here some pics! That’s Sara getting interviewed by KYW News! People loved our signs and I expect lots of great photos in the news and online as all the major TV stations and several bloggers covered the event. Oh, a shoutout to Vangie from Dyke Drama who took a second to say hello and introduce herself; she loved our signs. Check ‘em out! (Full disclosure: We got the ideas from earlier protests.)

The spontaneous march around City Hall was my favorite part, and the police were awesome in keeping everyone safe. We expected Pro-Prop 8 demonstrators, but none materialized. The only sour note was a single downturned thumb by a lone driver. Most drivers honked in solidarity! Frankly, Philadelphia is amazing, and I’m proud of my city taking part in this nationwide event and the way that we supported human rights in California and throughout the US today!

To learn more, check out the Facebook Group, the Join The Impact website, and the Courage Campaign website.





Windows Live Navigation Sucks

14 11 2008

Excited about a new lifestreaming option for Windows Live users, I decided to go check out the new offering. I signed up to get a Windows Live account yesterday. The experience is terrible. I haven’t a clue as to how to get the new aggregation features to work. Navigation is horrible. Even finding my profile (From Home, Click Spaces (?), then click Profile) was a chore. Despite the fact that their blog talks up the social networking feature, there’s no apparent or obvious UI to set it up. It seems like you have to be a Windows Messenger or Hotmail user to get the aggregation feature, but that requires a Windows-only installation process (I <heart> Mac). This is retarded and I can only see this feature set appealing to dedicated Windows Live users that have some clue as to how the navigation works. So, enjoy it, whoever you are.





Kudos Mr. Olbermann

11 11 2008

Keith Olbermann’s Special Comment on Prop 8 is one of the finest pieces of journalistic commentary that I have ever seen. I just sat here with my wife moved to tears by his compassionate, heartfelt, and sincere plea. Sara said, “That’s how I felt, but he just said it so eloquently.” Kudos Mr. Olbermann.

To anyone who reads this, know that we side with those who choose love, who spread love, who honor love.





Zen and the Art of Twitter

6 11 2008

The ephemeral nature of Twitter leads me to compare the experience of meditative “letting go” of concious thought with scanning my twitstream. Indeed, as I skim through the thoughts of my friend stream, I reach a similar state of abstraction as in deep meditation–what Castaneda’s Don Juan refers to as “shutting off the inner dialogue.”

Perhaps, Twitter is training me to truly engage, to mindfully read as well as see “my original face” as the followers of Zen say. Given the pace of today’s modern world, The Zen of Twitter is a tool to manage attention and to tune it even while consuming information.

Behold the Buddhist Twitterati!
The claws that tweet,
The jaws that Jott,
Behold the tweeting bird, and shun
The frumious fail whale.








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